I should make it perfectly clear though that there are other reasons besides being gay or a cheater why your significant other may not want to have sex any more. I myself wonder if it was a mistake to go down that road myself, mainly because I am dealing with a lot of hurt right now because of it.

(Thus, consequently you or that person might realize the current relationship you are in will not work. That is right now not the main point of this.)

Top 7 Reasons for Not Having Sex

1. Men and women everywhere are tired of the drama. Sometimes the pleasure they receive is just not worth it any more. I think I am getting to that point right now. I am enjoying the peacefulness that comes with being alone-though sometimes lonely.

2. It could be that they are not attracted to the person. This could be your worst nightmare, but remember it may not have anything to do with you but that person. This is especially true of you are a man and your woman is rejecting you.

You need to realize that oftentimes women need to be connected to a man on an emotional level to be able to be attracted to them. I think in some ways it is different for men who initially are very attracted to someone and then lose it because there is no substance or no connection.

3. Fear of getting diseases. The simple fact remains that the more sex you have the more prone you are to diseases. One way to avoid all of that is abstinence. The second-best option would be to remain with the same partner as long as it is a trustworthy partner.

4. Sometimes people just need a break! Sex sometimes does a number on a person emotionally, usually for women but often for men as well. Sometimes the whirlwind of emotions attached to it results in too much heartbreak and sometimes people are just tired of it and do not want to take the risk any more.

5. For spiritual reasons. Sometimes people just decide that it is better to wait until marriage. I regret not waiting until I was married, although I must admit experiencing this at one time was more important to me than waiting for the right person.

6. They may not be feeling well. This often is the case when a person has a chronic illness or is physically unable to have sex.

7. Physical distance. Maybe two people really do want to be together but they live a long ways from one another. In some cases, that emotional connection is more important than any physical connection they could have with someone else. 

6. Past abuse.   This is another reason that is quite complicated. Many people have been violated and their innocence has been taken away from them. Therefore, they have a hard time being close to anyone emotionally or physically.

Of course, there are other reasons why people do not want to have sex. However, this covers reasons other than the two top accusations made by people who do not want to have it. Not everyone is gay and not everyone cheats.

Sometimes thought it is not for really any "reason" other than some people just think it is better not to do it. It's that simple.  

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